Ask yourself these Eight question to live a successful life aik kamyaab zindagi jeeney ke liye khud se yeh sawal kiijiye !

har insaan jab subah uth کرتیار hota hai to aaiine mein zaroor daikhta hai. woh –apne balon ko sanwarta hai. chehray ko khobsorat banata hai aur is baat ki bharpoor koshish karta hai ke mein dosray insanon mein acha lagoon. zahiri shakal o soorat ki terhan –apne batin ko bhi dekhnay ki zaroorat hai lekin yeh fareeza koi bhi ada nahi karta. wajah yeh hai ke yeh aik mushkil tareen kaam hai. hamaray muashray mein har shakhs dosray logon ke baray mein har terhan se bakhabar honay ki koshish karta hai lekin khud se woh be khabar hi rehta hai. –apne aap ke sath waqt nahi guzaraa jata, –apne mann mein nahi dooba jata aur nah hi kabhi khodko ٹٹولاجاتا hai. is ka nuqsaan yeh hota hai ke insaan –apne اردگردتو saari duniya ikathi karleta hai lekin khud se woh bohat daur chala jata hai. insaan ki –apne aap se yeh doori is ko –apne maqsad hayaat se bhi daur kardeti hai avrjb is ko apni zindagi ka maqsad pata nahi hota tophr woh doosron ke maqsad mein istemaal hona shuru hojata hai aur nateeja yeh nikalta hai ke woh aik be maqsad zindagi گزارکر duniya se chala jata hai .
mashhoor qoul hai ke jis ne khud ko jaan liya, woh amar hogaya. mein ne kamyaab afraad ki jitni bhi aap bityan aur sawanah hayaat parhi hain un sab mein aik cheez mushtarik dekhi ke woh khud shanaas thay. woh –apne baray mein yeh aath sawal zaroor jantay thay aur in ki kamyabi ki wajah bhi yahi thi. is ke muqablay mein jo log un sawalaat se la ilm hotay hain inhen mein ne nakaam dekha hai. inn aath baton ko jan-nay ke baad insaan apni karkardagi mein nikhaar لاسکتاہے. is ki takhleeqi salahiyat behtareen hosakti hai aur woh apni aik pehchan ke sath jee sakta hai. yeh aath sawal mandarja Zeel hain.

1: What makes you happy | kon si cheez aap ko khushi deti hai ?

is sawal ka jawab dhoandne par aap koyh bhi maloom hoga ke har insaan ke liye is ka jawab allag hai, kyunkay khushi کاتصورمختلف hota hai. misaal ke tor par jab aap zamana taalib Ilmi mein thay to aap ke liye khushi ka تصورالگ tha. jab aap kuch sanjeeda hue to phir aap ke liye khushi ka zavia kuch aur ban gaya. aap burhapay mein pohnchain ge toaap ke liye khushi kuch aur hogi. is aitbaar se aap un cheezon ki fehrist banayen جوآپ ko khushi deti hain. aisa mumkin hai ke kisi insaan ko doosron ki madad karna khushi deta ho, lekin aisa bhi mumkin hai ke kisi ko maal akatha karna khushi deta ho. kisi ke liye doosron ko peechay chore kar kuch palena khushi hoti hai jabkay kuch logon ko sab ko sath le kar chalna aur team work ke tour par kaam karne mein maza aata hai. baaz log kisi ke dukh par barray khush hotay hain. jis ke baray mein Bano aapa ka qoul hai ke kisi insaan ke chehray par muskurahat kab aati hai? agar yeh سمجھااور jana jaye to is ke kirdaar ka pata chalta hai. agar kisi ke nuqsaan aur dukh pras ko khushi millti hai to is ka matlab yeh hai ke woh koi acha insaan nahi hai, lekin agar kisi ke dukh par dukhi hota hai aur khushi par khush hota hai to is ka matlab yeh hai ke woh aik acha insaan hai .
aap ki fikar mandi kahan hai? is se maloom hoga ke aap ki khushi kahan par hai .

2: What are your values | Aap ki eqdaar (values) kya hain ?

eqdaar, qader ki jama hai. jis ka maienay hai : ahem aur tarjeehi cheez. yani aap ke nazdeek kon si cheez ahem aur tarjeehi hai jis par aap koi سمجھوتانہیں kar saktay aur jis ke liye aap barri se barri qurbani dainay ko bhi tayyar ho jatay hain ?
apni bunyadi tarjeehi eqdaar ko janna bohat zaroori hai. baaz auqaat hamein ilm nahi hota avrkchh cheeze hamari eqdaar ban chuki hoti hain, jo kay' ' eqdaar' ' ban'nay ke qabil nahi hoten. lehaza apni eqdaar par nazar sani karen aur dekhen ke kya yeh waqai eqdaar ban'nay ke qabil hain ya nahi? isi terhan jo aap ki zindagi mein vaqata ahem cheeze hain inhen apni eqdaar ki fehrist mein shaamil kiijiye .

3: Do you know what to do in any problem | aap kisi bhi mushkil mein kis terhan ka rdِaml dete hain ?

kisi bhi mushkil mein aap ka radday amal batata hai ke aap kis qader sanjeeda aur mature insaan hain. har aqal mand insaan pareshani ko manage karna jaanta hai.' ' stris management' ' behtar honay ka matlab hai ؛زندگی ka behtar hona. kyunkay zindagi pareshani ka dosra naam hai. hamari zindagion mein bohat saari cheeze aisi hoti hain jin par hamara control nahi chalta. insaan ko saari zindagi pasandeeda aur mawafiq halaat nahi mlitay. agar aap –apne maazi par nazar dorhayin to maloom hoga ke kahin takleef اورپریشانی mein aap be bas hogaye thay avraap ne apni pareshani ka dhandhora petta tha ya yeh bhi ho sakta hai ke aap ne barri bahaduri ke sath halaat ka saamna kya ho. aap ka radday amal jaisa bhi raha ho yeh yaad rakhen ke dukh insaan ko tabah karsaktha hai lekin agar aap is ko منیج karna jantay hain to phir yeh' ' takhribi' ' ke bajaye' ' tameeri' ' ban sakta hai. misaal ke طورپرآپ shairi ko hi dekh len. jis qader bhi mayaari shairi hai is ke peechay koi nah koi dard aur dukh hota hai. deen mein sabr karne ka hukum bhi is liye hai ke agar aap ko koi dukh hai to is ko –apne andar sanbhalain aur aur jis terhan aik handi pkti hai is terhan khoo daal ko pakayen toaap ko sabr ka meetha phal naseeb hoga .

4: how is your health | aap ki sehat kaisi hai ?

jism, zehen, rooh avrjzbat mil kar insani shakhsiyat banatay hain. aap ko apni jismani, zehni, jazbati aur Rohani sehat ke baray mein zaroor ilm honachahie. insaan jab bhi apni sehat ke baray mein jaanta hai to woh –apne aap se pyar karna shuru kardaita hai. khud se pyar karna' ' khudgarzi' ' bilkul nahi hai. apni sehat ke baray mein jan-nay ka matlab yeh hai ke aap –apne baray mein hassas hain. aap –apne baray mein yeh ghhor kar rahay hain ke mere jism ko kis cheez ki zaroorat hai? aaraam ki, khoraak ki ya phir werzish ki aur isi ke mutabiq aap apni zaroorat poori karty hain .
hamaray malik mein health ka business is wajah se ziyada phail gaya hai ke poori qoum ne sehat ko pas pusht daal diya hai. yahan bandah jab bilkul dhay jata hai tab woh sehat ke baray mein fikar karna shuru karta hai aur dr ke paas jata hai. halaank agar sehat ke baar y mein aagahi hoti توایسی tadabeer ikhtiyar ki jatein ke bemari ki soorat hi paish nah aati aur insaan mehangay tareen doctors aur adwiyaat se bach jata .

5: What is your personality | aap ki shakhsiyat kon si hai ?

1 shakhsiyat انٹراورڈ hoti hai aur aik ایکسٹراورڈ. aap –apne baray mein jaanen ke aap kon si qisam ke hain? aaj Google aur youtube par barri aasani ke sath prsnalti tst aur malomati videos mil jati hain, jin se –apne baray mein yeh andaza lagaya ja sakta hai ke meri shakhsiyat kon si qisam ki hai. aap yeh bhi jaan satke hain ke aap aik samaji insaan hain یاآ pay aik انٹرپرینور hain. aap aik fouji hain ya aik behtareen mubalagh ( communicator ). aap ka asal talent kya hai? jab aap apna tst karlen ge to maloom hojaye ga ke aap aik munfarid insaan hain. khud ko mo-asar bananay ke liye apni shakhsiyat ko janna bara zaroori hai. mujhe apni amli zindagi mein bohat saaray achay aur behtareen mawaqay miley lekin mein ne inhen ikhtiyar nahi kya, kyunkay mujhe barray durust waqt par yeh idraak hogaya tha ke meri prsnalti kya hai aur mujhe kis field mein agay barh jana chahiye .
agar aap ne bara kaam karna hai lekin is mein aa pay ki kefiyat guzaray Laiq hai to is se behtar hai ke koi چھوٹاکام dhunden lekin is ko is andaaz mein karen ke woh' ' di best' ' ho. aap ki zindagi mein koi aik kaam aisa zaroor ho jis ke baray mein aap btaskin ke yeh mujh se behtar koi nahi karsaktha. jab bhi insaan kisi aik field mein mehnat karkay agay barhta hai to phir kam az kam –apne malik ke naqshay par ضرورنظر anay lgtahe .

6: What is your strength (ability) | aap ki qabliyat kya hai ?

kuch logon ko Allah jismani qowat deta hai, jis ki wajah se woh sports mein achi karkardagi dikhata hain. kuch logon ko Allah maloomat ki taaqat deta hai. kuch logon ke paas mushahiday ki taaqat hoti hai. kuch logon ke paas hikmat e amli bananay ki taaqat hoti hai. kuch ke paas ablaagh ki taaqat hoti hai tokchh ke paas lidrshp ki taaqat. algaraz har insaan kisi nah kisi qabliyat se muzayyan hota hai. aa pay ke paas aisi kon si qabliyat hai jo aap ki taaqat ban sakti hai ?
is mauzo par aik behtareen kitaab' ' strengths finder' ' ke naam se hai, jis ke musannif ka naam ڈونلڈکلفٹن hai. is kitaab ki tehqeeq batati hai ke shaksiaat ki aqsam 34 hain aur har insaan mein paanch طاقتورصلاحیتیں hoti hain jin ke ird gird is ki zindagi ghhoomti hai. apni salahiyat o qabliyat ke baray mein jan-nay ke liye is kitaab kamtalah aap ke liye be had mufeed rahay ga .

7: What are your weaknesses | aap ki kamzoryan kya hain ?

sab se mushkil kaam insaan ka apni kamzoriyon ka janchna hota hai. yeh aitraaf ke mein kahin nah kahin se kamzor hon, bohat mushkil kaam hai. darasal insaan ka taqqabur aur anaa is se is ki kamzoriyon ko chhpaditi hai aur is koyh ta-assur dilaati hai ke tum to sab se perfect insaan ho, halaank perfect koi bhi nahi hota. aap ke andar jo bhi kmzoryan hain un sab ki aik list banayen aur apni un khamion ko khoobiyon mein tabdeel karne ki koshish karen
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8: Who are you inspired by | aap ka rule model kon hai ?

aap kin logon se shadeed mutasir hain. aap ka jo bhi rule model hai is ke baray mein jan-nay ki koshish karen. aap ke andar kisi bhi insaan ki mohabbat aur aqeedat hoti hai to woh aap ko نکھارتی hai. is liye is baat ka bhi poor a khayaal rakhen ke aap jis insaan ko rule model bnarhe hain kya woh waqai maashr y mein aik misali shakhsiyat hain? agar aap ka dil mutmaen hai to phir is ko zaroor falo karen aur is ne jin usoolon ko apnakr kamyabi haasil ki hai, aap bhi inhen apni zindagi mein layein .