The top five regrets of dying :
marnay se kuch pehlay 5 barray pachtaway

bronnie ware aik Australian nurse thi. magar is ka kaam aam narson jaissa nahi tha .

woh aik aisay clinic mein kaam karti rahi jahan aisay mareez laaye jatay they jo zindagi ki baazi haar rahay hotay they .

un ki sansen chand haftu ki mahman hoti theen. mareezon mein har umar aur har marz ke log hotay they .

un mein sirf aik cheez yaksaa hoti ke woh sirf چندہفتوں ke maheman hotay they. zindagi ki ڈورٹوٹنے wali hoti thi. bronnie naay mehsoos kia keh is ke clinic mein 10 12 hafton se ziyada koi zindah nah rehta tha .

clinic mein mojood dosray doctors aur deegar narson ney un chand dinon ki ahmiyat ko mehsoos nahi kya magar bronnie aik hassas zehan ki maalik thi .

is ney mehsoos kya ke agar ensaan ko yeh pata ho ke woh ab is duniya se jaaney wala hai to ghair mamooli had taq sach bolnay lagta hai .

–apne guzray hue waqt par nazar daal کرنتائج nikaalte ki salahiyat se malaa maal hojata hai' apni tamam Umar ke almie, khusihyan اورنچوڑ sab kuch batana chahta hai .

bronnie nay mehsoos kya, ke mout ki waadi ke safar par rawaangi se چنددن pehlay insaan mukammal tor par tanha hojata hai .

khofnaak akailey pan ke ehsas mein mubtala shakhs logon ko apni zindagi ke baray mein batana chahta hai. baatein karna chahta hai. magar is ke paas koi nahi hota. koi rishta daar, koi Aziz aur koi hamdard .

bornnie ny faisla kya ke zindagi se aglay safar par jane walay tamam logon ki baatein sunay gi. un se mukalama kere gi. un se un ke betee hue waqt ki khusihyan, gham, dukh, takleef sab kuch غورسے sun کرمحفوظ karle gi. chunancha bronnie ny –apne mareezon ke aakhri waqt ko computer par aik ( blog ) ki shakal mein muratab krna shoro kar diya .

is ke blog ko be intahaa maqboliat haasil hogayi. lakhoon ki tadad mein logon ny poori dihan sy un ki likhi hui baton ko parhna shuru kar diya. browny ke khawab وخیال mein nahi tha ke is ke aur mareezon ke tasurat ko itni pazeerai miley gi .

is nay aik aur bara kaam kar dala .

yeh sab kuch aik kitaab mein likh diya .

is kitaab ka naam

" marnay ke paanch barray pachtaway "

The Top Five Regrets Of Dying:

Bronnie ki tasneef shuda kitaab maqboliat ki بلندترین satah کوچھونے lagi .

herat ki baat yeh bhi thi ke tamam dam torte wale logon ke tasurat bilkul yaksaa thay. woh aik jaisay zehni pull Siraat se gzrrhe thay. yeh paanch pachtaway kya thay !

First Regrets Of Dying:

duniya chorney se pehlay aik baat sab nay kahi. is se koi bhi مستثناء nahi tha. har aik ki zabaan par tha ke mujh mein itni himmat nahi thi ke zindagi ko apni terhan se jeeta. poori zindagi ko –apne ird gird ke logon ki tawaquaat ke hisaab se basr karta raha .

Bronnie k andazhy ke mutabiq har insaan ke khawab hotay hain. magar woh tamam khawab adhooray sirf is wajah se reh jatay hain ke insaan apni zindagi ki dorr ird gird ke waqeat, hadsaat aur logon ke haath mein day dita hein. woh zindagi mein khud faislay kar hi nahi paata. yeh tamam logon ka pehla aur yaksaa pachtaawa tha .

Second Regrets Of Dying:

doosri baat jo khasosan mard hazraat ney ziyada kahi kyunkay اکثرحالات mein ghar ke akhrajaat poooray karne ki zimmay daari mard ki hoti hai. yeh ke unhon ney –apne kaam ya kaarobar par itni tavajja di ke –apne bachon کا بچپن nah dekh paye. waqt ki qillat ke baais –apne khandan ko achi terhan jaan nahi paye. kaam aur rozgaar ke gham ney un se tamam waqt hi chean liya jis mein darasal unhein kaafi time –apne bachon aur ahal khanah ko dena chahiye tha .

saari mehnat jin logon ke liye kar rahay they, kaam ki zayad-ti ney darasal usay un se door kr diya. kaam un ke liye phansi ka phanda ban gaya jis nay un ki zindagi mein kamyabi zaroor di, magar un ko –apne nazdeek tareen rishton ke liye ajnabi banadiya .

bronie nay –apne aksar mareezon ko yeh kehte suna ke unhein apni zindagi mein اتناکام nahi karna chahiye tha keh rishton ki duniya mein akailey reh jayen. yeh dosra ehsas zayan tha .

Third Regret Of Dying:

teesri baat bhi intehai ahem thi .

aksar logon ne خودسے gilah kya ke un mein itni himmat nahi thi ke –apne asal khayalat se doosron ko aagah kar paate .

beshtar log sirf is liye –apne asal jazbaat ka izhaar nah kar paye ke doosron ko naraaz nahi karna chahtay thay ya doosron ka khayaal rakhna chahtay thay .

mgr Is ka nuqsaan yeh hwa ke woh aik aamiyana si zindagi guzartay rahay. un ki tamam salahiyaten un ke andar qaid reh gayeen. kayi afraad ke mizaaj mein is wajah se itni talkhi aagai ke tamam Umar کڑھتے rahay. unhein honay walay nuqsaan ka ilm is waqt hwa jab bemaar parhe aur kisi qabil na rahee.

Forth Regret Of Dying:

aksar log is afsos ka izhaar karte rahay ke –apne puranay doston se rabita mein nah reh paye. nokari, kaam, rozgaar ya kaarobar mein itnay masroof hogaye ke un ke behtareen dost un se daur hotay gaye .

un ko is zayan ka ehsas tak nah hwa. –apne achay doston ko waqt nah day paye jin se aik jazbay ki abyari hoti rehti. kashmakash zindagi naay unhein –apne qareeb tareen doston se bhi itna daur kardiya ke sab amli tor par ajnabi se ban gaye .

salo sal ke baad mulaqaat aur woh bhi adhuri si .

Bronnie ne mehsoos kia keh sab logon ki khwahish thi ke aakhri waqt mein un ke behtareen dost un ke sath hotay. ajeeb haqeeqat yeh thi ke kisi ke sath bhi saans khatam hotay waqt is ke dost mojood nahi they .

aksar mareez Bronnie ko –apne puranay doston ke naam batatay they. un tamam Khushgawar aur ghamgeen lamhon ko dohratay they jo waqt ki gird mein kahin gum ho chukay they. –apne doston ki hِs mazah, aadaat aur un ki shararaton ka zikar karte rehtay they .

Bronnie tamam mareezon ko jhoota dilasa deti rehti thi ke woh fikar nah karen, un ke dost un ke paas atay hi hon ge .

magar haqeeqat mein kisi ke paas bhi aik dosray ke liye waqt nahi tha. zindagi mein bhi aur aakhri saanson mein bhi !

Fifth Regret Of Dying:

5th aur aakhri baat bohat mutasir kin thi. tamam mareez yeh kehte they ke unhon neh –apne aap ko zaati طورپرخوش rakhnay ke liye koi mehnat nahi ki .

aksariyat neh dosaron ki khoshi ko apni khoshi jaan liya. apni khoshi ko jan-nay aur pehchanney ka amal shuru hi nahi kya .

aksar logon neh apni khoshi ko qurbaan kar daala. nateeja yeh sun-hwa ke un ki zindagi se musarrat ka khobsorat parindah gayab hogaya. woh logon ko zahiri tor par mutasir karte rahay ke intahi mutmaen zindagi guzaar rahay hain .

darasal unhon ne naye tajarbay karne chore diye. woh yaksaniyat ka shikaar hogaye. tabdeeli se itnay ghabra gaye ke poori zindagi aik ghalat ta-assur diya

ke bohat itminan se apni zindagi guzaar rahay hain. lekin unhon ne –apne اندرہنسی aur qehqahon ko masloob kardiya. tamam khoob soorat aur bharpoor jazbay panhan rahay balkay paband salasil hi rahay .

Umar ke sath sath –apne oopar sanjeedgi aur غیرجذباتیت ka aisa khoal charha liya, ke hansna bhool gaye. –apne qehqahon ki bhar poor aawaz suni hi nahi. –apne andar ghatt ghatt kar jeetay rahay magar apni khushii ki parwa nahi ki. حماقتیں karne ki jad-o-jehad bhi tark kar daali .

nateeja yeh hwak_h ajeeb si zindagi guzaar kar safar Adam par rawana hogaye .

browny ki tamam baate mere zehan par naqsh ho chuki hain. mere ilm mein hai ke aap tamam log intahi zaheen hain. aap sab ki zindagi mein yeh paanch gham bilkul nahi hon ge. aap hrtrh se aik mukammal aur bharpoor zindagi guzaar rahay hon ge .

puranay doston ke sath khoob qehqahey lagatay hon ge. apni zaat ki khusi ko bharpoor ahmiyat dete hon ge .

magar mujhe aisay lgtahe ke hum tamam log un paanchon almyon mein se kisi nah kisi kashkar zaroor hain .

baat sirf avrsrf idraak aur sach maan-ne ki hai .

is ke bawajood meri dua hai ke kisi bhi shakhs ki zindagi mein paanch to drknar, aik bhi pachtaawa nah ho .

magar. . .

shaed mein ghalat keh raha hon ?

aik badshah neh kisi baat par khush ho kar 1 shakhs ko yeh ikhtiyar diya ke woh Sooraj ghuroob hone taq jitni zameen ka daira mukammal kar le ga, woh zameen is ko allot kar di jaye gi. aur agar woh daira mukammal nah kar saka aur Sooraj ghuroob ho gaya to usay kuch nahi miley ga .

yeh sun kar woh shakhs chal para. chaltay chaltay Zahar ھوگئی to usay khayaal aaya ke ab wapsi ka chakkar shuru kar dena chahiye, magar phir lalach neh ghalba pa liya aur socha ke thora sa aur agay se chakkar kaat lon, , phir wapsi ka khayaal aaya to samnay ke khobsorat pahar ko dekh kar is neh socha is ko bhi apni jageer mein shaamil kar lena chahiye .

algaraz wapsi ka safar kaafi der se shuru kya. ab wapsi mein yun lagta tha jaisay Sooraj naay is ke sath musabqat shuru kar di he. woh jitna taiz chalta pata chalta Sooraj bhi utna jaldi dhal raha he. asar ke baad to Sooraj dhalnay ki bajaye lagta tha pigalna shuru ho gaya he .

woh shakhs dorna shuru ho gaya kyunkay usay sab kuch haath se jata ntr aa raha tha. ab woh apni lalach ko kos raha tha, magar bohat der ho chuki thi. dorrtay dorrtay is ka seenah dard se phataa ja raha tha, magar woh tha ke bas doray ja raha tha -

aakhir Sooraj ghuroob sun-hwa to woh shakhs is terhan gira ke is ka sir is ke سٹارٹنگ pointe ko chhoo raha tha aur paon wapsi ke dairay ko mukammal kar rahay they, yun is ki laash ny daira mukammal kar dya- jis jagah woh gira tha isi jagah is ki qabar banai gayi aur قبرپر kutba lagaya gaya, jis par likha tha. .. .

" is shakhs ki zaroorat bas itni saari jagah thi jitni jagah is ki qabar he "

aaj hamaray dairay bhi bohat barray hogye hain, chlye wapsi ki soch sochte hain. ..